Friday, December 27, 2013

Chaos- A Natural Law


This sweet little face is Nevaeh Alizae Regina Hernandez-Ohlund. Yes, it is true she has 5 names. But the one I refer to the most is CUPCAKE!! Cause she is so yummy looking, I just want to eat her up!!

Cupcake was born June 16, 2012 

The story of how she was conceived and brought into this world is made from a combination of complete Chaos. I have often wondered how something so beautiful can be created from confusion and order. Then I realize that all chaos is needed in this world. Nothing is solely created with ribbons and bows. When Earth was created there was chaos of atoms and molecules needed to form the planet. When a embryo is created in the womb, there is mass chaos of sperm to greet the much anticipated egg. When fireworks go off, there is a big bang, followed by chaos of jumping sparks that creates a beautiful illuminated image. When cupcakes are made, there is a chaos of ingredients needed to form the little spongy dessert.

When things are created, chaos is needed. This is a Natural Order and Law of Nature. Chaos has and is judged to be something that is not natural. Based on the theories above, I believe Chaos IS Natural.

I am completely grateful of the chaos that brought this Shinning Star to my existence!

WHERE HAVE YOU BEEN?


WHERE HAVE YOU BEEN?

This morning I ran into a guy I see all the time. He is married with kids and is a really nice person. I see his Light and his Goodness and enjoy talking to him. He said something to me that made me think; I have Been HIDING! 

I said to him "Long Time NO See" He said "I know WHERE HAVE You Been?" I said, "I've Been a Hermit Lately" He said, "Yeah I guess we do that when we don't want to BE SEEN" 

OMG.......He is RIGHT!! HE SEES ME! And I haven't been honest with myself about it until now! Yeah I am on this site and interact here, but that is it. I have spent TOO MUCH TIME in a place where I don't even want to be.

I found myself STUCK IN MY STORY AGAIN!! This has been a challenge for me most of my life. When the going gets tough, I hide and find myself stuck from my Hiding! When the going gets tough and I do not know how to make it better, I Hide to NOT BE SEEN! I guess part of me wanted to stay stuck and not BE SEEN. Especially when I am Hurt, Sad, Confused, Mad, Disappointed or whatever emotion that is on that line. And when I am doing this unconsciously I feel like an outcast!! But I haven't been an outcast to anyone but Myself. I have accused others of treating me as an outcast. Today I forgive myself! Today I love myself!! And I apologize to all I have accused this action!!

Now that the cat is out of the BAG, lol! Today I am making a VOW to BE SEEN!! TO BE SEEN AT MY WORST and to BE SEEN AT MY BEST!! I do believe the WORST is behind me. However I realize NOW that when the going gets TOUGH, I NEED TO BE SEEN!! 

Thank you to MY MIRROR, that HELP ME REALIZE THIS!! This morning I ran into a guy I see all the time. He is married with kids and is a really nice person. I see his Light and his Goodness and enjoy talking to him. He said something to me that made me think; I have Been HIDING! 

I said to him "Long Time NO See" He said "I know WHERE HAVE You Been?" I said, "I've Been a Hermit Lately" He said, "Yeah I guess we do that when we don't want to BE SEEN" 

OMG.......He is RIGHT!! HE SEES ME! And I haven't been honest with myself about it until now! Yeah I am on this site and interact here, but that is it. I have spent TOO MUCH TIME in a place where I don't even want to be.

I found myself STUCK IN MY STORY AGAIN!! This has been a challenge for me most of my life. When the going gets tough, I hide and find myself stuck from my Hiding! When the going gets tough and I do not know how to make it better, I Hide to NOT BE SEEN! I guess part of me wanted to stay stuck and not BE SEEN. Especially when I am Hurt, Sad, Confused, Mad, Disappointed or whatever emotion that is on that line. And when I am doing this unconsciously I feel like an outcast!! But I haven't been an outcast to anyone but Myself. I have accused others of treating me as an outcast. Today I forgive myself! Today I love myself!! And I apologize to all I have accused this action!!

Now that the cat is out of the BAG, lol! Today I am making a VOW to BE SEEN!! TO BE SEEN AT MY WORST and to BE SEEN AT MY BEST!! I do believe the WORST is behind me. However I realize NOW that when the going gets TOUGH, I NEED TO BE SEEN!! 

Thank you to MY MIRROR, that HELP ME REALIZE THIS!!

No More Monkey's Jumping in My Head


Little kids love to jump on beds. It’s fun, but also can be dangerous. Somemay have heard their parents sing an old children’s song, “No more monkey’s jumping on the bed!” That lullaby was not enough to get the kids from jumping on the bed. Many people have mind chatter that’s like little kids jumping on the bed.

How do we stop the chatter from jumping around in our minds? One technique that has been proven to be efficient and is used as an alternative to traditional Psychology, is Life Coaching.

History has shown that talking to a professional such as a Psychiatrist or a Psychologist can help some keep their sanity and to keep thoughts in line with whatever we are seeking. However that experience can be quite depressing and costly. Some Psychiatrist’s prescribe pills to treat symptoms which do not always get to the root of the problem and may cause long term effects on our bodies. Studies have shown, the average human being has over 60,000 thoughts rolling around in their minds a day. That’s a lot of thoughts!

Does prescribing a pill really get to the root cause of all the mind chatter? How can we control our lives and our desires if we have all these thoughts rolling around?

Many people today have a lot going on in their lives; family, friends, work, and other responsibilities. Keeping everything together can be a balancing act. Our thoughts can be out of whack, negative, or may lead us to making choices that we are unsure of. Life Coaches assist people with finding the answers they seek within themselves. They use listening techniques and ask detailed open ended questions that get clients to dig deep within themselves to find the answers they are looking for. Coaches look for what is right with their client and not what genetics has proven them to be. They hold their clients accountable in doing work that gets the client to where they want to go. Coaching is an effective tool that helps people with results they are looking for and for controlling the monkeys jumping in our heads.

Rev. Danielle Ohlund a Master Life Coach and Hypnotherapist, 602-518-8941

Thursday, September 26, 2013

ANGEL FEATHERS



Honestly, I can not remember the first time I received a message from the ANGELS. I have always believed in them and have know that they are with me. I have conversations with them a lot. Especially when I need to find something, need direction, need companionship, guidance or whatever I can come up with.

I have several decks of Angel cards that I like to play with. I like to pull the cards and see what messages they have for me. Not always do I use the cards but there have been several times when I have pulled cards, I received messages to look for signs that the Angels are with me and protecting me. These signs happen to me in the form of seeing feathers, finding coins, license plate messages and also repetitive numbers.

Today, to kill the boredom I was having, I decided to go for a walk. Lately, during the day the weather has been most awesome to be outdoors. Plus I felt like I was needing to take extra care of my thoughts today, so going for a walk was PERFECT. While I started to walk, I decided I was going to recite a mantra I learned in my spiritual studies. OM GAM GANAPATAYE NAMAHA was my choice. This mantra comes from the Hindu God Ganesh. The Hindu's believe Ganesh is the God of wisdom and the remover of obstacles. Since I am going through some major changes this mantra is perfect for me.

As I am walking and singing the mantra, I am watching the people in the park, the birds fly and whatever is brought to my attention. As I am getting deeper into my walk, I lost track of the mantra I was reciting and I begin to think about other things. I don't really remember the exact thought, but I know it was one that would have taken me to a place I eventually did not want to go.

All of the sudden, a FEATHER OUT of NOWHERE lands right on my LIPS and flies away!!!! Even though I was a little creeped out from the feather landing on my lips, my immediate response was, The ANGELS are with ME!! Since the feather landed on my lips, I immediately took inventory and realized I was beginning to think negative and this was their sign to me to KEEP MY THOUGHTS HIGH and UPLIFTING. Needless to say, I went back to the mantra I was singing.  :)

It's INCREDIBLE that I am aware, I am FULLY SUPPORTED by the UNIVERSE and the ANGELS are with me as I make my transition to A BETTER ME!! I am GRATEFUL!!

Wednesday, September 25, 2013

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Tuesday, September 24, 2013

THE CALM IN THE STORM


In my continuing effort to keep myself from hiding, I am AMAZED TO SEE that when I am in a place of FAITH, how others around me are not and ARE VERY threatened of my FAITH. Today I realized that I have been Faithful, but my down fall, being Sucked into others FEARS. 

I realize that when I am in a place of FAITH and it is expressed to a non faithful person, their energy becomes panicky and they have anxiety and then I become panicky and have anxiety and then I lose myself from a feeling that was not mine to begin with. In the past I became so energetically engrossed with the other person feelings and emotions that I could not recognize what was mine and what was theirs and before you know it, I am completely drained from whatever positive feeling I had in me. That is when I would hide. Hide in my shell to get re-energized. But before I would ever become energized, I would play the negative song in my head that would keep me in this chaotic circle.  More than likely the song that was playing in my mind, was their FEAR and their NON FAITHFUL ATTITUDE, plus maybe a little mix of my own to. Like does attract like.

I LITERALLY SAW THIS HAPPEN WITH MY EYES!!! I AM SO GRATEFUL IN KNOWING THIS!!!! Thank you GOD.

How do I intend to not make the same mistake? By keeping myself Firmly Grounded and centered in MYSELF. By reminding myself I AM A SPIRITUAL BEING HAVING A HUMAN EXPERIENCE.  By continuing affirmations that LIFT ME UP. By continuing to practice my FAITH. By continuing to be AROUND OTHERS that will AFFIRM the SAME THING FOR ME. By continuing to be the LIGHT that will help their darkness. By continuing to pray for them. Praying that God or the Universe will help them to have strong Faith in knowing that it is their Fears that keep them from knowing their truth.  AND SO IT IS!! :)

Saturday, September 21, 2013

LIFE INSIDE THE SHELL

     

I have referenced my hiding sort of like a Hermit Crab. In understanding how I have been hiding, I want to understand the Hermit Crab a little more.
A Hermit Crab is a land or water dwelling crustacean. Not like the true crab, the Hermit has a soft vulnerable abdomen. In protection from its predators, many Hermit Crabs will seek out abandoned sea shells. When it finds the proper shell, it will pull itself inside leaving its legs and head outside of the shell. Hermits carry their shell wherever they go. When it out grows the shell, it will switch to a larger one.  In determining which shell to move in to, they generally “Shop” for the perfect one. Once they find the one they like, they move right in.Hermit Crabs usually live on the seashore, in tide pools, and on the sea bottom in deeper water. They scavenge for their food.

In comparison, I am like the hermit crab!  I am not a crustacean, but much like the Hermit, I too have a soft vulnerable abdomen and for my protection, I moved in to an invisible shell to hide from my predators.  Just like the hermit I created a perfect shell for my protection. I too have been a scavenger; feeding myself on dead matter by having continuous negative thoughts, creating illusions, making up stories, and suffering on past experiences that in this moment, are dead and gone.

I have grown tremendously spiritually and mentally and the shell that I have been living in is TIGHT and HEAVY to carry and has not always been the greatest looking shell, either. It has weighed me down physically. I have out grown my Shell.

Now that I am HONEST with myself in what I have been doing, I realize that being a hermit SERVED me. It SERVED me VERY WELL, in the PAST.

In my experiences with Life, I have learned that I am Energy and everything around me is Energy too. For a long time, I have ABSORBED ENERGY that did not belong to me by taking on others emotions, comparing myself to others, not minding my own business, listening and trusting others instead of listening and trusting GOD and myself and believing that I was separate from everything.

In ALL, I have SUCCEEDED in being the HERMIT but in all actuality, I am not a hermit. I am a SPIRITUAL BEING having a HUMAN EXPERIENCE.  I am a UNIQUE EXPRESSION of our LOVING CREATOR meant to have DIVINE PURPOSE, LOVE, CREATION, and ALL THAT IS GOOD in my human experience.

The WORK that I am committing myself to doing is not new to me. I created excuses of not taking responsibility in how I created my life. However I also have overcome GREAT obstacles and have learned very valuable lessons and picked up many tools along my path to help me get where I am destined to go and am certain I will pick up many more in my travels.  But picking up tools does nothing for you, if you don’t learn how to USE THEM and USE THEM.  A Captain cannot lead his vessel in the sea without proper knowledge and education.

LEARNING about who I AM, I have to start back from the beginning. Meaning going back to ALL my experiences from the past and  FORGIVING MYSELF and FORGIVING OTHERS in realizing that I made the best choices with the tools that were given to me at that time and completely releasing anyone whom I CREATED A NEGATIVE ILLUSIONS and LETTING GO of it. Once we let go of things that no longer serve us, we have no right to go back to the grave and dig it up. Once something has been buried, it needs to stay there for nature to take its course.

Being the BEST ME living authentically with integrity is a continuous work in progress. Today I see myself in a whole new perspective.  No longer the crying newborn, I am the toddler learning to how to walk. This time I choose to walk in the path of LOVE and LIGHT no longer afraid to come out of my shell.